Made love your authority?
Get rid of it soon.....atleast try it..!
Let's talk about phase where amateurs these days give their authority to another person under tag '#love'. For majority part of people thinking that -> Love is the idea that someone else makes you happier than you yourself can. But still unaware that it's just bluff.
Loving someone else is like giving them your authority. Being convinced that, that person will make you happier you unknowingly suspend all your self-respect. However, my friend that self-respect was your only happiness index which you had now handed over to someone other. Just like owing a Ferrari but handed over the steering to other allowing them to drive your life as per their way.
If both parties agree it leads to co-dependence but on contrary if only one does it leads to one becoming servant of the other one.